Every Bad Decision You Made Led You To This:

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Do you believe wrong choices can lead to positive outcomes?

We have been taught to condemn bad decisions. To punish ourselves and regret others.

But I believe everything has its place in this Universe.

Every decision is a molecule of a greater, perfect order. Every mistake can be coined into a lesson. Every wrong turn leads us to the possibility of a new beginning.

• You starve your body, ignoring health signs only to discover you lack self-acceptance and crave love.
• You say mean words to your mom, only to feel guilty afterwards and find the courage to say “I am sorry”.
• Cheating and getting caught is a profound lesson on integrity and perhaps a nudge towards self-reflection that the life you have built so far has been a lie.

Every poor decision you made led you to this:

To discomfort thus to grow.

Getting drunk at the party and throwing up afterwards leads to a massive hangover. Add to it texting your ex at 2 A.M., and oversharing on social media, and you get more than just a headache. You are left with a feeling of resentment and shame. These emotions are not pretty. But they are crucial messengers to heal your life. The hangover becomes a crash…