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5 Spiritual Red Flags When Something Isn’t Meant for You
The energy speaks before words do.

Some things don’t fall apart.
They were never built on alignment in the first place.
And you know it.
You’ve always known it.
But because you wanted it to work, because it looked good, because your heart is loyal beyond reason — you stayed.
But let me remind you: alignment has a frequency.
And when something or someone is not in tune with your nervous system, your values, or your future — it will eventually create distortion.
Here are five spiritual red flags — five ways your soul is trying to tell you: this is not for you.
And it’s okay to let go.
You feel dysregulated more than you feel safe.
Let’s get somatic.
The first red flag isn’t always emotional or spiritual. It’s biological.
Your body will register dissonance before your brain forms language around it.
- Does your breath shallow around this person or situation?
- Does your nervous system feel constantly on guard?